Wednesday, May 1, 2013

Mobility.

We are entering a new phase that requires a new level of diligence on our part and some real baby-proofing. In the last couple of days, Glo has really started to move around the floor and explore. It's not quite crawling, but it's close; she prefers to push herself along on her left knee with her right leg. We chuckle. She loves to stand. And be outside. And talk. And play. Our cheery little lady with the crazy hair.



Saturday, March 23, 2013

What to do with the excess...

Glory is constantly processing information, and our life moves quickly. She has enjoyed the purees and done well (considering some inconsistency on our part). She is becoming more interested in her chewable puff varieties. Chewing... yes. With her four front teeth and gums, she is great at it. Such a smarty pants; she only eats one at a time, making sure to finish before attempting another. We both did some clapping when she mastered releasing her grasp at the right time.

To my point. We have so many pureed veggies in the freezer. So for dinner, I made a cauliflower/potato mix with garlic, basil, and butter. Amazing. Apparently you don't need an entire cauliflower when making baby food. Oh well. Lesson learned.

More experimenting to come, I'm sure. There's an eggplant or 2 in there somewhere... things for baby meatballs as well. Finger foods, here we are; table foods, here we come.


Tuesday, February 26, 2013

Photos, galore!

I have been pretty excited to post these photos of Gloria; so much so, that I have decided to do a second post of our first family photos with an overview of baby milestones. We received a great gift from a pretty savvy aunt/mom/sister that can be felt and enjoyed by the whole family.  Jennifer is always thinking big, definitely doing so by giving us a 2-year portrait membership at JCP. Free sitting fees mean we can go whenever we want and order as few or as many photos as we please.

I proudly admit that I need photos to document her growth and development. But, we have neither the funds nor the need for private photography at this time While lovely, frequent photos of Glory would be better quick and simple. Receiving post with photos of our nieces and nephews is fun, and they find a home on our refrigerator for a time. When we are in the kitchen, baby likes to look at and hear about her family. I imagine our photos will take a similar path; I love that thought.

That is what I want, and that is what we now have -- photos when ever I feel like it, for any reason (or no reason at all!). And, oh my, are they adorable. So thank you to Jennifer, and the whole Innes clan for motivating this trend. We love it.

Our first shoot was on January 23; this was our initial adventure. Gloria was a serious gal.





We returned to make an attempt to somewhat duplicate a photograph taken of my grandma Gloria and her mother, Ella Klammer. I have yet to confirm the date, but my best guess is that it was taken in early 1926.  Soon, they will both hang in our family picture hallway gallery. 


We took a few other shots as well.



As I mentioned, our family portraits will be posted as soon as we pick them up from the studio. As a sign-off for this post, I leave you with overwhelming cute. This was taken at a play date with our baby friends. Stone went in for a kiss, puckering his lips and everything, reaching out for her. Glory was cautious, but reciprocated. What nice friends!





Links to full albums:*

Jan 23:
https://viewimages.jcpportraits.com/sharealbum/sharealbumlist?rndId=AAgIBAJBUA==&uId=BQUAAwNGXA==
Feb 13:
https://viewimages.jcpportraits.com/sharealbum/sharealbumlist?rndId=AAgIBAJBUQ==&uId=BQUAAwNGXA==
Feb 23:
https://viewimages.jcpportraits.com/sharealbum/sharealbumlist?rndId=AAgJCAZDXg==&uId=BQUAAwNGXA==

*If these links do not work for you, an email can be sent per request.


Saturday, January 19, 2013

Solid overcompensation.

As I eluded to in our previous post, Gloria's six month check-up was this past week. Even before we found our way back to the lobby, I was focused on one thought: I have got to do something about solids. So I did, and enjoyed the process. I want to share my first batch-cooking experience; not just so people can see what Gloria is up to, but also for possible ideas and support. Navigating through first-time (and beyond!) parenting can be tricky. I've found it helpful to observe and listen to others doing the same, obtaining a wealth of information. Perhaps this will spark an idea somewhere. Enjoy!

Gloria's Solid History  
Okay, so here's the scoop: from 4.5 months until this past Tuesday (appointment day), we have been attempting solids every day . . . except on days we weren't home at the right time, or that certain week over the holidays . . . oops. I think my idea was to not over-do the solids before she was eager for more. I shared this with our pediatrician. During our conversation about solids, Dr. Hoff made the following points in her responses to my questions.
  • Gloria needs more calories during the day as she grows; as such, she can be eating 3 solid meals per day in addition to her formula intake.
  • Meat is appropriate starting at six months of age; this recommendation has changed in recent years from 8 months as meats are such a good source of protein and iron.
  • As long as there is no sign of a reaction, as with all foods, adding spices is appropriate.
  • By the age of one year, Gloria should be eating all table foods.
Her foods are all pureed. We started with sweet potato, green beans, and banana. Sweet potatoes continue to be a success. We have put the brakes on green beans; I think the taste is too strong right now. The banana happened once, mixed with organic whole-grain oatmeal cereal and formula. Last weekend I made carrots, and she had them for the first time on Monday (the day before the appointment). She loves them. We also tried pear mixed with the oatmeal two days before this cooking venture; baby seems to enjoy them. Here are the photos from her first run-in with carrots.



So far, she has only been sitting in her high-chair. We have a nice spot for our routine; the past couple of days I have had a bottle ready and give her a few sips when she gets distracted. It brings her back to an eating focus, easily associating the stuff on the spoon with the stuff in the bottle. 

Food Preparation
In my mind, we had some serious work to do. A bit more diligence was required for this operation to progress. I thank and give credit to www.wholesomebabyfoods.com.

A trip to Whole Foods was made. It is a personal choice of mine to use all organic, grass fed, and GMO-free ingredients for baby. For about $30, we purchased:
  • Half a pound of "pasture raised grass fed boneless beef top sirloin steak"
  • One pound of fresh ground turkey
    • Both of these were found in the deli; not frozen.
    • Beef is $14/lb; turkey is $5/lb
  • Three pears
  • Six braeburn apples
  • Three medium carrots
  • Two bags of frozen peas
  • One large sweet potato
  • One avocado

The avocado  was the first thing I knocked out. To freeze, I cut it in half, removed the pit, and spread a few drops of lemon juice on the open flesh to prevent browning. I plan on cutting off this thin layer before consumption in order to avoid the citrus. Wrap, bag, done.

Now, for the challenge. Everything I make is steamed or baked, so it takes some thought to coordinate between those techniques and blender use/cleaning. When I have made food before I used either a regular blender or a food processor, no big deal. Not this time, my friends. Thanks to David, my good [chef] friend of many years, I present to you the VitaMix Professional Series from the Culinary Institute of America.



BAM. This fine piece of equipment did the trick and then some.  I never had the need to turn the power up past a six, and even that was a bit much. When cranked up to ten, this blender is nothing short of an outboard motor. Very impressive; delightful, even.

Tip: to easily clean your blender, blend water and soap.


Both the beef and turkey were baked, cooled, and then blended in to fine powder. Water was added to reach a desirable consistency. 

Note: after I divvy up the puree in to ice cube trays and give them time to freeze, I put all cubes of one food item in to a labeled freezer bag.  I believe the preferred, maximum freezer life for baby food is three months. If I am lacking available cube trays, I will buy time with tupperware in the refrigerator for no more than 24 hours.

The apples were peeled and steamed. They did brown a bit but after a trip through the blender, they turned out perfect apple sauce for Gloria. 


I used the same process for the pears as I did the apples. Some recipes say to just mash a fresh pear -- this has not worked out for us in the recent past, so we steam them. However, since she has had pears before with no negative consequences, I added cinnamon. I did not measure the exact amount, but it looked right. I definitely did not want to over-do it, so I didn't.


The carrots were done the same as before: peeled, chopped, and steamed. Since she has had carrots (and has plain carrot puree in the freezer already), I spiced this round up with garlic and basil. The garlic we use at home is Spice World's minced garlic; it was easy for me to dip a spoon and get the liquid to add instead. The last thing I want is for Gloria to hate garlic because her first experience was ruined due to a non-pureed chunk of intense flavor in the wrong place. Lame. This puree smells great, too. I think we may do this combo for ourselves as well.

My cautionary tale when steaming carrots: don't let this boil over on to an electric stove. I'm not sure why, but both times I've made carrots this has happened to me and it stinks. 


The sweet potato was cleaned, mercilessly stabbed, wrapped in tin foil and baked. I forgot to do it this time, but next time I am putting it on a plate. I am over the smell that is produced when the sugary liquid hits the bottom of the oven. For those of you with Fiesta Ware, it is oven-proof.  I look forward to teaching Gloria that homemade science lesson: why this plate changes color when exposed to a heat source. But I digress. I added nutmeg

And finally, peas. I chose peas because I read that they are a more desirable taste for Glo's first green vegetable compared to green beans. To prepare, I steamed them. Although I bought two bags, I only made one. This made plenty of puree, plus I will be able to spice up the second bag. 

I saw a suggestion for achieving a smoother pea puree: right after steaming, dunk the peas in ice water. So, I did. I filled up a large mixing bowl with cold water and ice cubes, leaving room at the top for my colander to fill with water while pushing the ice down. Easy peasy . . . eh, eh??

   

 This whole process would have taken exponentially longer had Danny not been hanging out with Gloria. I was able to focus my attention and work hard. Total time, spanned over two days, is roughly 8 hours. A lot of this time was making sure to keep everything washed and free of contamination. I constantly kept the cutting boards, chef knife, steamer, and counter-tops clean. A cluttered kitchen has never been a friend of mine. Today at lunch, Gloria tried peas for the first time. While she didn't devour them, she did a great job and seemed accepting of this new flavor.



Since the appointment, Gloria has been doing two meals a day (breakfast and lunch), and on one of those days we attempted three. She eats however much she wants; we do not force her. If she loses interest, we give it a few minutes of calmly trying to refocus. The amount of food per meal varies, as we're still trying to identify her cues for the perfect mealtime window. We'll learn right along with her.

So, our final menu: avocado, peas, apples, pears/cinnamon, carrots/garlic/basil, sweet potatoes/nutmeg, beef, turkey (in addition to our previously made plain carrots, pears, sweet potatoes, and green beans). 

As she tries more foods and develops a more sturdy meal schedule, we will definitely expand our culinary repertoire. My personal goal is to incorporate foods and [especially] spices from all over before she reaches the one-year mark; cilantro, lemon grass, chilies, tamarind, curry powder, et cetera. My hope for this is that when she starts eating "real" food, we won't have to rely on sugar or salt for flavor. Food is an important and diverse aspect of life; I want to start Gloria off by doing as much as I can to make eating a positive, healthy experience that will stay with her forever.

Tuesday, January 15, 2013

What a difference six months makes...

I just realized that it has been some time since our family has posted a blog update. I will ratify this behavior, as I want everyone who loves Gloria to be as caught-up as you'd like to be on her happenings; particularly those far-away family. You deserve our diligence, so the next time you see Glo you will be ready for action!

Not to mention my ability to look at these photos all day long.

January 10th marked six months since her birth. It is unbelievable how much has changed, how much we've bounced back from the initial shock of that change, and now how we are always find a new normal.  Constantly adapting to Gloria's increasing abilities and growing curiosity is second-nature now; anticipation to change is a little bit more challenging. It is the most fun I've ever had.

Gloria has many talents, perfecting them with repetition and careful consideration. She is able to sit by herself once she is helped in to position; her stomach muscles are much stronger than you'd expect. (Side note: she rolled over at about 4.5 months, and did so from back-to-front for only a few weeks. She got tired of that and decided it was not worth her effort.) We play on our bed for hours each day and baby loves it. She is such a good girl, able to entertain herself with different toys that we are so lucky to have. Playing with mom & dad is also acceptable, providing her with a high level of enjoyment with all sorts of smiles! When she figures something out, you can almost see the neurons flashing, her brain making the connection. This is followed by an obvious expression of accomplishment. This makes me proud and happy for her.







Her newest favorite thing is this jumper, courtesy of Aunt Jennifer. The first night that we had it set up, she jumped and laughed for over an hour, loving it the whole time, until she actually fell asleep in the seat. We sit on the couch, watch her jump, and laugh. (Not the best camerawoman for this clip; link to Youtube. Make sure volume is down or you get me).


For the past 2.5 months, Gloria and I have spent our Thursdays with our Beyond Newborns class at AMMA Parenting Center. Danny and I took our birth prep class there, and we loved it. This "mommy & me" was fantastic for both mama and baby (mostly mama). All of the women in our class are wonderful -- a great network for us. We look forward to continuing to grow our support system and playing/getting to know everyone more! Here is Gloria's baby friend crew:



We have been a busy little family, with a busy baby girl. I will close with her 6 month appointment stats (as of today, January 15, 2013). Everything checked out with the doctor; we have some things to compound on (e.g. meal times). Maybe that will be the next blog . . . Anyway -- it is hard to believe what a rambunctious, sweet personality has emerged in such a short time frame. 

Weight: 17 pounds 13 ounces (81st percentile)
Length: 28 inches (99th percentile)
Head circumference: (99th percentile)

For a Shutterfly slideshow with all of our related pictures, please follow this link: http://cmd.shutterfly.com/commands/pictures/slideshow?site=drginnes&page=drginnes/pictures&album=8&albumPath=



Saturday, November 10, 2012

4 Months: Look at what I can do!

It's hard to believe that four months have passed since we became a family, and two since Danny and I had our perfect wedding. As a new stay-at-home mama, I am able to observe every amazing thing that Gloria does -- learning all about finger dexterity, identifying fun toys and noises, laughing, smiling, and "talking," playing and kicking -- what a difference every day makes! Gloria has requested to publicly demonstrate some of the skills she has acquired over the past couple of months.

After realizing that she loves to put her bib in her mouth, we moved on to the extremely soft, washable cloth toys. She just loves to feel the fabric on her face and lips, grabbing and pulling the toy to her face. This is her "chewing lion."

                        


Only performing this trick if diaper-only from the waist down, usually on the changing table, Glo can now grab and eat her feet! Mama eats her feet a lot, so that's one of our favorite activities to share. Nom nom nom!

I decided to sneak in photo of my favorite naked baby!! For those of you unaware, Gloria had a herniated belly button -- it was no big deal, but caused her belly button to heal quite slowly and it stuck out more or less, depending on the situation. No longer!



"Let's hang out in here for 30 minutes to play, okay?!"



Preparing to grab her feet. Her belly button has gone down even more since this photo was taken a few weeks ago.


Feets, feets, feets!!











This past week, Gloria and I started our "Beyond Newborns" class at AMMA. Only one session, and our tummy time problems are over!! Mama has very little experience with this sort of thing. She would only last about 30 seconds directly on her floor blanket, and would spit up all over it anyway. So, we haven't done much tummy time. A couple of weeks ago, I started "flying" her around, but was unsure if this was equivalent. It is, I discovered at class. We also learned many other variations to try; one of which is to lie on my inclined legs. All three of us are THRILLED about this development!



Looking around at toys, her room, and her favorite -- daddy! This lasted upwards of three minutes (or so it seemed).






Another thing we learned at our class -- baby girl LOVES noise making, light-weight balls. She can grab them, and surprised the heck out of me when she picked up a much larger one (which we promptly went to buy at Target after class) and hurled around while I was supporting her in a sitting position. Never thought I'd be so impressed as I am when she now reaches out to grab it with both hands. And then of course, the obligatory attempt to eat it, laughing all the way to the bank.

        



So, on November 10, 2012, our baby girl is four months old. We are enjoying every moment, every smile, every new noise that she gives us, and can't wait to see what she does next.

(As the following pictures were being taken this evening, Gloria did her real laugh for a solid twenty seconds, proceeded by another short burst. This is the longest that she has done so; the photo shoot turned in to a laughing party and a teary-eyed mama. It was the sweetest sound to ever fall upon my ears. Please note her crossed legs -- she did that herself. What a lady!

There were too many photos that we love to pick just one. Here is the Month 4 Gallery.)

 

 




Thursday, November 1, 2012

The Big Family Road Trip.

This past weekend, Danny and I took on a pretty daunting travel itinerary (with a 3.5 month old Gloria) in order to attend a very important wedding. We enjoyed a lot of family time with bouts of long hours on multiple interstates. Now, with daddy already back on the road to Iowa for work, baby and I have a few minutes to discuss the highlights of our trip.

We "left" at eleven in the morning last Thursday; quotations indicate actual travel time began on the opposite side of St. Paul. The drive was somewhat uneventful. After a few stops, a detour, and ten hours, we arrived at the Innes household prepared to unpack and some eventual sleep. We were so happy to see everyone there (Jennifer & the girls, Grandma & Grandpa Innes). Gloria did very well with the new environment and lots of people, which would continue for the duration of the trip. What a wonderful baby we have.

For a group of seven with a baby, two young girls and two cars, I am impressed at how close we came to departing Crete at 7:00 am as planned. While the adults were busy getting ready, the girls did an excellent job of looking after Glo. Mellena held her cousin for a solid twenty minutes.


Our drive to Auburn Hills, MI went pretty smoothly as well. Mama got to nap for a couple of hours while daddy and Grandpa did all of the driving. After approximately six hours of driving, we got to the hotel. With time to spare, we settled in to the room.


I am no longer the newest family member in the Innes family; Danny's cousin was married to his bride on Saturday at the beautiful Indianwood Country Club. The venue was amazing; the fireplace from the sixteenth century, a bar salvaged from a centuries-old pub in Europe, and the building itself with massive beams shipped over from Scotland. The pieces that adorned the walls and hallways were not merely decorations, but artifacts. Husband was thoroughly impressed.


Most of us got around to dancing; Gloria was delighted to be swept across the floor by Grandma Innes. They danced and danced! Uncle Danny and Mellena had a dance, too.


Danny originally wanted to dress our daughter in a Michigan cheerleading outfit for the wedding (which is adorable), but mama put her foot down. Grandma Hanson bought a fancy dress for our fancy, beautiful girl. After the reception, Gloria stretched out on the couch. She is so skilled at bringing everything she can grab up to her face, she wanted to try it out with her dress as well!



I fell under-the-weather throughout the night, so the second half of the trip was a little more challenging. The mother of the groom hosted a delicious family brunch. We stayed to chat for a couple of hours; all of the little people had a bouncy house to jump in -- rough times ensued, but all seemed to have a fantastic, successful playtime. 

We buckled in, somewhat anticipating a harder time in the van. Unfortunately, we were correct. I would have been upset too; stuck in a car seat for so long. By no means was it a terrible, hair-pulling experience. We felt sadness for Glo, exhaustion . . . like I said, a daunting task. There were several stops to change diapers, get coffee, and attempt to cheer up a stiff baby.

On a side note: quite a few establishments need to reconsider the placement and/or safety of their changing tables. Some don't. There seems to be a lack of adequate space to change an infant on a sometimes questionable platform. All I'm saying is, you should at least allow enough room for the parent to maneuver to catch their child in case the table rips off its hinges.

The back of the van seemed a better spot.

We could not have arrived at Crete soon enough. As soon as we placed her on her back in the living room, we had our happy, smiley baby back. Good grief was I relieved -- I found sweatpants, a blanket, and some hot tea. Good play time was shared by all, and everyone was able to relax. Gloria appreciated the special time she was able to spend playing with Grandma and Grandpa,* snuggling with Aunt Jennifer, and kicking with the girls. 

*A striking photo was taken, which I am unable to post as it was shared via Shutterfly, of Grandpa and baby -- the eye color is the same bright blue! Pretty neat.

Monday morning came quickly, bringing a little more play time and a send-off breakfast. Leaving is always bittersweet, but as soon as we hit the road we were eager to get home. We were able to stop at Dunkin' Donuts three times, including the last one in Wisconsin Dells. I don't know what it is that they do to their coffee (regular with cream and sugar!), but we can't get over how good it is when handed through the drive thru window. 

Gloria required Danny's presence in the back seat for the last two hours of the drive, satisfied only if he had his flashlight app running. She must have heard the phone call daddy received earlier . . . you know, the one about driving to Iowa the next morning. She was sure going to miss him, so what better way to get some time in than to play on the way home. 

To make a long story a little less long, Gloria did not have all that much trouble sleeping a few hours later. Rebecca got a little sleep. Danny left for Cedar Falls a little after four in the morning on Tuesday, gone until Thursday. It is always good to be home, but will be perfect when our whole family is together later this evening. 

After a long, lovely weekend and thirty-plus hours in a vehicle, a couple of productive days spent mostly at home is exactly what we needed. Love love love.